We need to accept others in our life,
but it’s more important that we need to accept ourself for who we are.
The reason is, if we cannot accept our own self, then how can we accept others?
No one will truly know how to love others if the person don’t know how to love him/herself first.
The question is, why some of us don’t love or accept our own self?
Family background and attitude of a person play a vital role in answering the question above.
A child raised up from a broken family or a family without love and care, then the child probably will have problem in loving him/herself and others as well when he/she grown up.
An attitude of never satisfy and fear of losing anything will also push a person to not to love the things he/she is having now, and end up he/she loses everything, including their own self.
Hence, what are the solutions?
Since we can’t choose our family background, but we can choose our friends and attitude.
Try to make friend with those who are loving,caring and accepting you, and church would be a best place to go. We need to receive love continually in order to recover from past hurting. During the process, we will learn to accept ourself and start to learn to love others as well.
The same for those who are fear of losing anything, the reason why they fear is because they are insecure. They also need love, care and acceptance from friends in order to recover.
Let’s care, love and accept ourselves first, then we can only do the same way to others. And eventually the world will be a better place to live.
Let’s Live Life and Love Life together. Cheers!